So I got this email today to WARN us all about the many creeps lurking LA and praying on the "newbies" beware, male groupies are worse than female groupies. The funny thing is I know this person pretty well and I like him a lot but when you said about the "cold as Christmas" in his house it rang a bell. I don't know much about this guys personal life but I do know he's out ALL the time and no one has every really figured out what he does. Its like a myth, I've heard plenty of stories but no one knows who the REAL JAY is.
*DEAR DUNNIE*
Ok, so this is a guy everyone knows or has heard of in the party scene. Yet no one knows what the hell he does. I've heard several different rumors regarding his occupation, but based on what I know and seen this nigga is not doing SHIT! I been dealing with this guy since I was 19 years old and still to this day dont get his hype. So maybe I am the foolish one. Foolish but not stupid. I am a smart female when it comes to dudes, I know how to play my role and to keep my heart's best interests. From day one I knew this dude was a joke. But I figured hey why not! He had all the connects to the clubs, was always VIP and always took care of me. But he swears he was gaming me to this day. I should've ran ran ran when I went to his house for the 1st time for our lil "rendezvous." This nigga lived in a lil bitty shack/back house! It was cold as Christmas, he was sleeping in a BUNK BED!!! We did our do and to my surprise, it was NOT ALL THAT! TRUST! LMAO. The sad thing is let me tell you dude has chicks! And bad chicks at that, from video hoes to popular actresses/r&b singers. I don't know how he does it!
It took a minute for me to figure it out but I think I finally got his appeal but I finally got it he is a bitches step stool to the dudes with the "real money." I like to call him a male groupie or the hype man. He's always at different athletes, actors, entertainers tables, he holds their bottles and flosses their chains, cars, and everything else as if it's his when it's not. I dont know much about him now but throughout the 4 years I was fooling around with him he never had a car! I rather enjoyed playing with this dude. He constantly hit me up: bbm/txt/email/phone calls. I would only have sex with him when I wanted to. And that was always last resort penis.....he never lasted more than 5 mins not even with oral sex smh.
Basically in a nutshell: he loves what you call "newbies" he loves young girls he has to be damn near over 30 now. He swears he wants to commit but if he was he would keep his ass out the club. He talks to hella girls all in which hang out with eachother and thinks he slick about it and he really isnt. he's just a bum ass hollyHOOD dude. anytime we did anything it was because i was taking a "L" for my girls LOL..
Niggas have EGOS and they hate to have them bruised! So if your the 1st one to act like you dont give a fuck then they will be shocked! Men are such simple creatures, and we as women are def the complicated ones and us over thinking ish is what makes us THINK men are these big ASS HOLES we made them out to be. But really it's easy play the role....dont give a fuck about a dude til he shows (not says) how he feels. I think thats why i really like your blog. I learned my lesson long ago, men are dogs! Until i see how a dude interacts with his mama and family all that other shit's for the birds
Dont get me wrong i like Jay as a person i really do he's coo as fuck but i see right through him, he's predictable, insecure, and still trying to find himself.
I have so much to say about situations regarding men and dumb ass females that have made women have to act a certain way to keep a man because for every f'd up men out there it was a woman that made him that way, whether it was an ex, mama, grandma, or female in their life, thats just my opinion. =)
EXAMPLE: Single mother raising a young boy, brings men over that shes dating, always someone new, that little boy grows up thinking thats how women should be treated, inevitably he will treat other women in his life the same way. Thats his mom's fault! LOL let me stop!
Thanks for listening
-S
I love this, and I love that you played him while he thought he was playing you. I think you are TOTALLY right when you speak about how men act how the women in their life treated them, thats a great piece of advice.
Girls, just be careful out there if you feel in your gut somethings not right I can promise you there is something thats not right. Go with your gut instinct and if you're spending a lot of your time with this guy do whatever investigations you see fit. I've learned that its hard to take a guy seriously thats out every night in the club standing on top of tables when he doesn't even have a car, come on ladies OPEN your eyes and use your head. Take the advice of your friends and use what you see as your guide on how to treat your blooming relationship.
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